Last Friday, Britney Spears posted an instagram video that perfectly captures the intensely shallow and oppressive therapy that she’s been subjected to over the years. Our culture’s pathologizing of women and their emotions extends beyond the world of therapy - in her most recent Instagram skit, we see Britney parodying the therapy she’s experienced throughout her life, dual-roleplaying as a therapist asking a patient if she’s eating and breathing well. In response, we see the patient, played by Britney with a flat affect, state that they’re well and that everything is fine, placating since there’s no genuine opportunity for connection or dialogue.
Britney emphasized the systemic aspects of the emotional abuse she’s endured, and how this abuse also came from ‘professionals’ that could’ve helped her. Here lies the major gaps in mandated individual therapy: who is mandating the therapy? When the onus is placed on the individual to be solely responsible for their wellbeing, we ignore the larger systemic and relational aspects of wellbeing. To put it succinctly, our sanity does not come solely from within our own minds. Others have a great effect on our ability to form and keep healthy habits. It’s no secret that Britney’s inner circle have not had the best intentions and this skit eliminates another layer of persona and pretending Britney has had to perform, making it difficult to parse out where the true self begins.
This is true for much of Britney’s over the top Instagram skits - the captions and videos have a strange quality to them that makes one wonder what the message is: “Is she doing this to be funny? Oh, no, she’s making fun of us and this is clearly satire! No, wait”… These are just some of the thoughts one may have when viewing Britney’s videos. Some have even postulated that Britney has been signalling to her followers that she is being held hostage in the background of these videos, and that they’re actually a cry for help. Perhaps the public is on edge again and the dissection of her posts comes from a place of genuine concern, but how much concern is too much? After a certain point, are we continuing the scrutiny under the guise of concern?
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The suspicion and criticism around Spears is nothing new. Britney has been battling the good girl-bad girl dichotomy since the beginning of her career. Yes, a great deal of her agency was taken from her through her conservatorship but are we going to continue this tradition by constantly being suspicious of everything she posts? The manner with which we frame Britney’s career, unfortunately speaks volumes about the kinds of struggle she, and other major female pop stars endure - even saying her agency “was taken” rests on the assumption that she does not inherently have agency and that agency is something we, as an external party, can give or take away. These kinds of linguistic intricacies affect how we interpret Britney’s career, and her fight to break free of her conservatorship. Our common parlance often takes agency away from those struggling with their mental health, and fails to take into account the larger reasons that buttress their struggles - in Britney’s case, the media and her own close circles.
In the post-#FreeBritney era, we’re starting to see a proudly unfiltered Britney on Instagram. Spears’ skits are a masterful and humorous dissection of her experiences under her conservatorship from her perspective. Even throughout the #FreeBritney movement, one of the only sources of media that Britney could communicate through directly to fans was her Instagram. It’s a place where she can, literally, do whatever the hell she wants. I say we keep it that way.
Last Friday, Britney Spears posted an instagram video that perfectly captures the intensely shallow and oppressive therapy that she’s been subjected to over the years. Our culture’s pathologizing of women and their emotions extends beyond the world of therapy - in her most recent Instagram skit, we see Britney parodying the therapy she’s experienced throughout her life, dual-roleplaying as a therapist asking a patient if she’s eating and breathing well. In response, we see the patient, played by Britney with a flat affect, state that they’re well and that everything is fine, placating since there’s no genuine opportunity for connection or dialogue.
Britney emphasized the systemic aspects of the emotional abuse she’s endured, and how this abuse also came from ‘professionals’ that could’ve helped her. Here lies the major gaps in mandated individual therapy: who is mandating the therapy? When the onus is placed on the individual to be solely responsible for their wellbeing, we ignore the larger systemic and relational aspects of wellbeing. To put it succinctly, our sanity does not come solely from within our own minds. Others have a great effect on our ability to form and keep healthy habits. It’s no secret that Britney’s inner circle have not had the best intentions and this skit eliminates another layer of persona and pretending Britney has had to perform, making it difficult to parse out where the true self begins.
This is true for much of Britney’s over the top Instagram skits - the captions and videos have a strange quality to them that makes one wonder what the message is: “Is she doing this to be funny? Oh, no, she’s making fun of us and this is clearly satire! No, wait”… These are just some of the thoughts one may have when viewing Britney’s videos. Some have even postulated that Britney has been signalling to her followers that she is being held hostage in the background of these videos, and that they’re actually a cry for help. Perhaps the public is on edge again and the dissection of her posts comes from a place of genuine concern, but how much concern is too much? After a certain point, are we continuing the scrutiny under the guise of concern?
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The suspicion and criticism around Spears is nothing new. Britney has been battling the good girl-bad girl dichotomy since the beginning of her career. Yes, a great deal of her agency was taken from her through her conservatorship but are we going to continue this tradition by constantly being suspicious of everything she posts? The manner with which we frame Britney’s career, unfortunately speaks volumes about the kinds of struggle she, and other major female pop stars endure - even saying her agency “was taken” rests on the assumption that she does not inherently have agency and that agency is something we, as an external party, can give or take away. These kinds of linguistic intricacies affect how we interpret Britney’s career, and her fight to break free of her conservatorship. Our common parlance often takes agency away from those struggling with their mental health, and fails to take into account the larger reasons that buttress their struggles - in Britney’s case, the media and her own close circles.
In the post-#FreeBritney era, we’re starting to see a proudly unfiltered Britney on Instagram. Spears’ skits are a masterful and humorous dissection of her experiences under her conservatorship from her perspective. Even throughout the #FreeBritney movement, one of the only sources of media that Britney could communicate through directly to fans was her Instagram. It’s a place where she can, literally, do whatever the hell she wants. I say we keep it that way.
